I\u2019ve always been bad at keeping up with relationships. Even though I do see some friends when I go to LA, it\u2019s usually the same 3 people, but I don\u2019t talk to them before or after, so our conversations may be a little more like catching up, but not as deep. And even though I have some relationships in the Bay Area that are considered closer, we can drift apart pretty quickly. I think the only \u201ccloser\u201d relationships I have are with my roommates, but that is also probably cuz we LIVE together and they have to see us. If they lived somewhere else, not sure how often we would hang out. At least we sometimes have dinner or watch a movie together.<\/p>\n
I think I am content with this though\u2026I don\u2019t think all relationships will last. Maybe I\u2019m jaded since I left LA and all my friends when marriage happened? And friends that I make sometimes leave for jobs or move out of state? And just\u2026we just sometimes drift apart because we don\u2019t make as much of an effort to be part of each other\u2019s lives. I guess this is just something that you have to accept as part of life. Things just go on, work goes on, senseless killings happen, wildfires burn down everything you own (there are fires in SoCal and NorCal right now). I think I\u2019m just in a stage in which I am just cruising through\u2026I know it\u2019s just a phase\u2026hopefully, I can enjoy the holiday season with a happier outlook\u2026holidays should bring our relationships with other together.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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