My parents sometimes make me sad. They are going to move to San Gabriel to be closer to their church, but they are very bad at communicating with each other and have been arguing. My mom gets angry and my dad is bad at communicating and then my mom doesn\u2019t talk to him. They sound verbally abusive toward each other. I mean\u2026of course if one attacks the other person, you\u2019d naturally feel defensive\u2026but they constantly do that to each other\u2026how do you think they are going to solve any problems by putting the other person down? \u00a0It feels like they are ALWAYS arguing actually, not just about the move. I feel like if they didn\u2019t call themselves Christian, they are no different from marriages that are toxic and falling apart. I don\u2019t know why they can\u2019t just try to be nice to each other. They are both sinful people and they don\u2019t want to compromise. Sometimes, their marriage is a map for how I DON\u2019T want my marriage to turn out. Maybe it\u2019s just cuz they are in an argument that I\u2019m saying this\u2026they have good times too\u2026but sometimes, I think their arguing is just a way of life for them. My mom probably takes comfort in friends and church more than her own husband. My dad has no one except her and has bad health\u2026they frustrate me and I don\u2019t really know how to help them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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